Can You Teach an Old Dog New Tricks? Yes, Especially When It Comes to Separation Anxiety

When it comes to the age-old question of whether you can teach an old dog new tricks, the answer is a resounding yes! Today, we’re diving into a specific area: separation-related behaviors in senior dogs. Having worked with many clients over the years, I can share several success stories that prove age is not a barrier to learning.

Understanding Separation Anxiety in Older Dogs
Let’s meet Gus, a 10-year-old dog who had a tumultuous relationship with being left alone. His mother reported that every time she left the house, Gus would panic—barking, howling, and generally feeling distressed. After a decade of scary absences, it was clear that he needed help. With the right training and some medications prescribed by a vet, Gus began to make remarkable progress.

In the initial stages, medications typically take four to eight weeks to kick in. However, Gus's transformation was surprisingly swift. Through a threshold assessment, we discovered that he couldn't even handle someone walking out the door without reacting. Yet, in just eight weeks, he went from zero tolerance to being able to stay alone for four to five hours. This was an exceptional case, but it highlights that with the right approach, change is possible, even for older dogs.

Another Success Story: Meet Benji
Benji, also 10 years old, had a different background. Initially, he was fine being alone, but one stormy evening, he experienced a terrifying event that left him traumatized. From that moment on, every time his owner left, Benji struggled with anxiety. His journey through the program took a bit longer than Gus's, but with dedication and a structured approach, he too learned to cope.

The Importance of Health Checks
Before diving into any training, especially for senior dogs, it’s crucial to consult a veterinarian. New behavioral changes in older dogs can often be linked to underlying health issues. For example, pain from arthritis or cognitive decline can significantly impact a dog’s ability to cope alone. Hearing or eyesight loss might also contribute to their discomfort. By ruling out these issues, we can better tailor our training approaches.

Identifying the Cause of Anxiety
Understanding why your dog is experiencing separation anxiety can help guide the training process. For instance, with Gus, we couldn’t pinpoint a specific cause. In Benji’s case, we knew the storm had triggered his fears.

Recently, I spoke with a client whose dog developed separation anxiety after the COVID-19 lockdowns ended. This dog had been used to 24/7 companionship and struggled when left alone again.

In this case, the guardian suspected that the behavior might stem more from frustration than anxiety. If a dog feels left out—like they’re missing out on family activities—it can manifest as separation anxiety.

Monitoring your dog’s behavior when you’re not home can provide valuable insights. A camera can help you understand what your dog is doing during your absences, enabling you to tailor your training approach more effectively.

Training Methods: Gradual Exposure and Desensitization
Whether your dog’s anxiety stems from fear or frustration, the training approach is largely the same: gradual exposure and desensitization.

We start with short absences and gradually increase the time apart, always ensuring the dog feels safe and secure. This method works for both anxious and frustrated dogs.

Creating Safe Absences
Safe absences are essential. These are short periods where your dog can learn to be comfortable on their own. Over time, we build up to longer durations. The key is to create an environment where your dog can rest and relax while you’re away.

Confidence Building Through Enrichment
A confident dog is far more likely to cope well when left alone. Enrichment activities are a fantastic way to build confidence in your dog, senior or not. Mental challenges, such as puzzle toys or scent work, can stimulate their minds and promote a sense of accomplishment.

For senior dogs, physical activities might need to be adjusted. Instead of long walks, consider short, leisurely strolls combined with mentally stimulating games. Engaging your dog in problem-solving tasks not only boosts their confidence but also calms their minds, setting the stage for a relaxed state when you leave.

Training Foundations: The Importance of Rest
Establishing solid foundations for your training is crucial. Dogs learn best when they’re calm and relaxed. Creating an environment that encourages rest and tranquility can set your dog up for success. During training sessions, focus on activities that promote calmness, allowing them to feel secure and less anxious about your absences.

Concluding Thoughts
So, if you have an older dog struggling with separation anxiety, rest assured: they can learn to be comfortable alone. While management strategies—like finding a caregiver during your absences—can be a temporary solution, training can provide long-term benefits.

Remember, age is not a barrier to learning. With patience, understanding, and the right techniques, your senior dog can thrive, even in your absence.

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