Managing Exit Points: Reducing Your Dog's Anxiety

When it comes to managing separation anxiety in dogs, exit points can be significant triggers, just like leaving (pre-departure) cues. 

Identifying Exit Points
Your exit point—the door or gateway you use to leave—may play a crucial role in your dog's emotional response. If your dog is hyper-vigilant and becomes anxious as you are getting ready to leave and when you approach a specific exit, it’s important to recognize this and work on decreasing their stress around your exit point.

For some dogs, there may be an option to use a different exit point which the dog has no fear history with and it's certainly worth considering if it is a viable option. By initially using another door, you can ease the training process and build your dog’s confidence. Once they’ve learned to be comfortable alone, you can gradually reintroduce the original exit point. This, of course, is dog dependent on how effective it will be or not. In other cases, using another door to leave by is simply impossible, especially for those living in apartments.

Managing Hyper-Vigilance
A dog that is hyper-aware of your movements near the exit can become stressed. To counter this, it’s vital to create a structured plan that minimizes their focus on the door. Ideally, your dog should be relaxed and settled while you go through your exit routine.

Desensitizing the Door
The goal of this exercise is to reduce the door's value as a trigger. Start by standing up and sitting down repeatedly without leaving. Gradually progress to walking toward the door, and return without touching it. Do this repeatedly until you get to the point where you can touch the door or even the handle. The desensitization process is all about moving forward gradually and not moving on to the next step unless the dog is calm and relaxed. The goal is to get to the point where you can open the door and stepping outside without any concern from the dog. This repetitive motion helps desensitize your dog to your movements and makes the door less significant to them.

Recognizing Signs of Distress
It’s crucial to differentiate between a dog that follows you to the door and one that shows signs of stress, like lip licking or yawning. If your dog exhibits these signs, slow down and reconsider your approach to ensure a calm environment. Many dogs will follow to the door but if they are not stressed then that really isn't a problem. You can read my blog HERE on understanding your dog's body language for more information on how to recognize these signs.

Implementing Place Training
If your dog is too focused on the door, consider place training. Teach your dog to stay on their bed or mat while you engage in your exit routine. Reinforce this behavior with treats, creating a positive association with remaining in place. Just a note: I don't mind if your dog does follow you to the door provided it is not stressed, however, if your dog is trying to get outside with you, place training can help you get passed this hurdle.

Building Independence Gradually
Once your dog can remain calm as you approach the door, gradually increase the time you spend outside. Start with just one second, then progress to five, ten, and beyond. This exposure therapy will help diminish the anxiety linked to your exit.

Final Thoughts
Managing exit points requires a careful, structured approach focused on patience and gradual exposure. By being mindful of your dog's reactions and adapting your training, you can help your furry companion feel more secure during your departures.

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