When it comes to training our dogs, one important interim measure is not leaving them alone. This is not a permanent solution but a necessary step while we work through a training program. As discussed previously, it’s vital to never let your dog exceed their threshold. Leaving a dog alone for extended periods can significantly undermine the progress we’re trying to establish.
During training, the only time your dog should be alone is when they are learning about safe absences. The goal is for your dog to feel calm, confident, and secure—essentially in what I like to call the "safe zone". We will gradually increase the time they spend alone, but for now, let's focus on the importance of finding alternatives when you need to leave. Life happens, and there will be times you need to run errands or attend appointments. It’s crucial to have a plan in place so that your dog doesn’t struggle or go over their threshold. Here are some options for finding care for your dog during these times: 1. Family and Friends Many people rely on close friends or family members to look after their dogs. However, this can sometimes feel like a burden, and you may encounter pushback if others think you’re overreacting about your dog’s needs. Be upfront about your dog's training requirements to ensure your friends and family understand the importance of your request. 2. Dog Walking Services If you’re only going to be out for a short period, hiring a dog walker can be a great solution. This allows your dog to have some fun and exercise while you take care of your errands. 3. Pet Sitters A pet sitter can come to your home and look after your dog while you’re away. However, it’s essential to ensure your dog is comfortable with them. Conduct a slow introduction, allowing your dog to get used to, and build a relationship with, the sitter through pre-visits and walks together. Look for a sitter who understands canine behavior, especially if your dog is fearful or aggressive toward strangers. 4. Doggy Daycare Doggy daycare can be another option, but not all facilities are created equal. Do thorough research to find a reputable daycare that matches your dog’s needs. Some daycares may kennel dogs during the day, which could be distressing for a dog prone to anxiety. Look for places that offer a comfortable environment, and ensure they are insured and have proper safety measures in place. 5. Doggy Friends If you often walk your dog and have met other dog guardians in your community, consider connecting with them. A friendly neighbor or fellow dog caregiver may be willing to look after your dog for a few hours, and you can reciprocate the favor. 6. Community Resources If you’ve moved to a new area and don’t know anyone, try reaching out on local Facebook groups. You might find someone who is looking for companionship for their dog or someone who enjoys being around pets but is unable to have one due to circumstances. For instance, senior couples who no longer have dogs may appreciate the opportunity to care for your dog, creating a mutually beneficial relationship. Be creative in your problem-solving. There are often options available if you look for them. For instance, a client I had found a lovely senior couple who adored her dog and would look after him whenever needed. Building these kinds of connections can be invaluable. If you feel overwhelmed by the idea of leaving your dog, don’t despair. There are solutions out there; you just need to get creative and explore the possibilities. If you have any questions or need further assistance regarding separation anxiety in dogs, feel free to reach out at [email protected]. If you are interested in learning more about my membership program CLICK HERE! Your journey with your dog is important, and I’m here to help!
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